Committed

I vaguely mentioned this a few weeks ago, but I figure it’s now time to come clean and explain.

I’m going to let you all in on a little secret, I figure if I put it out there it’ll be hard to back out. Not impossible mind you, maybe just a tad embarrassing.

I’ve always wanted to write a book. The problem is, I have trouble focusing and the last twelve months have been out and out procrastination, maybe more than twelve months, maybe a lot more.

I was going along quite nicely, writing snippets when the mood took me, which was quite often. Some of the things I wrote were longer than snippets, although how do you define a snippet? Is it a paragraph, a few paragraphs, a few pages? Who knows and I really don’t feel the need to go to a dictionary, on-line or the old fashioned book variety, which I still have by the way, to find the meaning. So, I was producing a few reasonably coherent bits of writing, with an idea forming, somewhere in the recesses of my mind, that I may put them all together one day.

But, as I said, I have a bit of an issue focusing. With these snippets of my past, reflections on my life, I felt that there was no hurry to produce anything publishable. I would just continue as these thoughts popped into my head and maybe one day I might even produce a memoir. It’s a genre I have always enjoyed reading and I even took a workshop on writing memoir. I had a focus.

In between times I tried my hand at fiction. Not an area I have ever been successful in, I tend to start off with a flourish but then run out of steam. I have lots of beginnings, I just have trouble with middles and endings.

It was at this point that I started to come unstuck. To be honest I got lured into the world of technology. It all started with an on line course. I’d decided that maybe it would be good if I could make a bit of money out of writing so I took a course in magazine writing. Then I took another in travel writing because I loved writing and I loved travel. Seemed perfect, I would have a career in travel writing. Enthusiasm was in full swing. I spent a fortune on magazines so that I could figure out angles and pitches to suit the various publications and then I started pitching, but it seems that there are a lot of travel writers out there and it’s a hard industry to break into. I was working full time and I just didn’t have the time that was needed to commit to the constant pitching needed to get anywhere.

Ok, it wasn’t working and my patience was wearing thin. Next option – start a travel blog. Brilliant idea, I could work at my own pace, no deadlines and no publisher accepting or rejecting my ideas. No pay either, but that didn’t matter, I had a full time paid job and writing was just for me. What I failed to realise though was how addictive blogging would become. It’s no exaggeration to say that it consumed my waking hours, it literally took over my life. I even stopped reading in favour of sitting in front of the computer. Now that’s sad and when I realised what had happened I had to do something about it.

Which set me to thinking, first of all I would have a weekend without the internet. No Facebook, no blogging or reading other people’s blogs and certainly no checking my blog stats. I would only use the computer for writing. From Saturday morning to Sunday evening. How hard could it be? Rhetorical question there people, I knew how hard it was going to be.

I managed quite well, mainly I guess because I had a fair bit on that weekend but as a long term solution it would take a bit of coming to terms with.

If you’ve stayed with me this far, I am getting to the point, which is …. after all of those delaying tactics I’ve decided I can delay no longer.

I have seriously committed to writing a memoir !!

I’m writing it to celebrate my 60th birthday which will happen, whether I like it or not, next year. When I looked back over my life my initial reaction was one of ‘I’ve lived a pretty ordinary life really,’ but others seemed to think otherwise. I guess my decision to go trekking in the Himalayas next May to celebrate the aforementioned birthday proved them right.

My intention with the memoir is to combine an account of this coming year with memories taken from my past. Not an A to B autobiography but an intertwining of episodes in my life including my decision in my fortieth year to return to study which culminated in me gaining my PhD in my mid 50s.

It’ll have a little bit of family history, the preparations for the trip, my excitement in this planning stage and how this trip affects me both physically and mentally. This is a leap so far out of my comfort zone that I have no idea how I am going to react to the experience but I’m hoping for a positive outcome as there are already thoughts of future treks floating around inside my head.

Tentatively titled How the Hell did I get here?, I figured someone may just be interested enough to read it.

So, there you have it … a commitment!!

18 thoughts on “Committed

  1. Well now that is some committment, not writing the book, I’m sure you will waltze through that. What I’m thinking is not checking the blog stats 3-4 times a day, resisting that little niggle to just check one more time to see how many “likes” and comments have arrived in the last half-hour.
    Yes, I know, I also am addicted….

  2. I hear you…and pommepal, I hear you too! I did the same on line writing courses with the same idea of bolstering non writing income with feature writing income. I have finished a chick lit manuscript (in the drawer) & after taking 9 months away from fulltime work have a 1st draft of an astro manuscript which I’m about to start shopping around. Love your commitment.

  3. I am always telling people what I’m going to do as a means of keeping myself accountable. Good luck with your commitment!

  4. Reading this post made me smile with acknowledgment and understanding … I can relate to most of it! You made the first necessary step … now just keep walking; one step at the time, just do not stop!
    All the Best
    Daniela

  5. Hi there, I read this post on my phone the other day and kept meaning to pop back to leave a comment!
    I for one am looking forward to reading this so don’t make us wait too long. And you’re quite right blogging is incredibly addictive and time consuming but I love it!

  6. Hi there, Thanks for paying a visit to my blog. You may have noticed that I’ve embarked on the book – writing trail.
    It’s a bit scary ‘doing it in public’ but I thought ‘What the hell – if no-one likes it, too bad’.
    I’m having great fun and re-living my travel experiences at the same time.
    I like the way you write so I’m sure you’ll be OK now that you’ve made a start – if only in your head! Best of luck.

  7. Hi there,
    Well done! the commitment is the hardest part, and now you’ve made it in public, you won’t be able to let yourself back down! I think you’ll find all writing is addictive. Like you, i started with travel writing a few years ago when MR P and I decided to do an extended caravan trip when we retired. I was lucky enough to have articles published in Caravan World mag, but one thing leads to another and I have now published 3 novels and am on my 4th. I’ll watch this space with interest. I’m sure you’ll make it. Good luck – with both the writing and the trip.

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