Today was the day that has been coming for the last 5 weeks, my last day in gainful employment, until I find another job that is.
So …. what to do next?
Options:
- Eke out a meagre living on my savings while sulking and watching daytime television.
- Write dozens of applications for jobs that I don’t really want simply because that’s what’s expected.
- Do something different and challenging.
- Make a plan and move on.
I’m thinking that 1 and 2 would be the easy way out while 3 and 4 are the way to go.
Now to keep up the momentum and work out a plan – suggestions welcome.
travelling bag 
For a transition like this, from one who’s been there, can I suggest 2 things? First take a break. Even if you think you’ve adjusted or it’s welcome, it can be seriously weird. Second maintain control of the stuff you can control- keep to a schedule of some sorts. It helps.
Thanks Jo – good advice. Do I still have to get up at 6.00am every day? But I am planning on a couple of visits this week to people I haven’t seen for a while, doing things I haven’t had the opportunity to do in a while and hopefully it’ll do me some good and make the way forward clearer.
P.S. Received the beads today, again perfect timing, they’re gorgeous and I’ll get a comment onto Lifestyle fifty this weekend.
Oh, it’s Jo, by the way…something weird is happening with my avatar…
Just realised – maybe it’s a different Jo …. aaagh, I know two Jo’s
nope, it’s me 🙂
I am so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you x
Thanks Keith, I’m thinking Silver Linings and all that at the moment 🙂
I think that is the only way you should look. You are a dynamic lady and I know you will find something better and even more rewarding. I have to say I find you inspirational x.
Come Live in melbourne for a while
Have you got a job for me?
Work somewhere in southland
Sorry to hear of your redundancy, but hang onto that old saying when one door closes another opens. I’ve found that over my 71 years. Looking back the changes have always worked out for the best. Good luck
That’s the way I’m thinking at the moment Pauline. It’s a change, it’s a challenge and it’s a new start. I’m just trying to go with it 🙂
Just a suggestion…suppose, just suppose for a moment that after a good night’s sleep you awake to find yourself feeling happy, living a fulfilled life. What does this life look like to you? Describe in detail the image that presents itself in your mind’s eye. How do you look? Who else is there with you? What are you doing?
Alternatively, create an image board that represents you living a fulfilled and happy life. Then work out what you need to realize this image. A plan comprising of S.M.A.R.T goals are one way to help you realize this image. (S = specific, M = measurable, A = attainable, R = realistic, and T = time-bound).
Finally, keep the faith. You have value.
Wow – you’ve got it in a nutshell. I’ve come across the S.M.A.R.T acronym before but only in business. I’ve never thought of associating it with life before, but it works. You’ve really got me thinking. Thank you.
Pam, isn’t it obvious? You go on another hike!!! Everest base camp was so may 2013, go on admit it there must be another hike you’ve been thinking about doing 🙂
Ah Emma – after only a couple of weeks together you seem to know me so well. New Zealand holds a certain appeal at the moment 🙂
Laid off for 6 months 3 years ago… I did #2. Not a lot of fun, and I squandered a chance to have a lot of ver good rides. Apply for jobs that you wold want, eke as long as you can, and find tha adventure that is waiting for you!
Good luck lady!
Thanks Tony – that’s my intention 🙂
Sorry to hear this Pam. Mark has been made redundant (again!) but is fortunate to have me (haha)! . He is a ‘kept man’ and has stopped looking for work. We are both living on my Teachers Pension and are happy dog walking, pottering in the garden, looking after ‘every man and his dog’, seeing friends and planning the occasional holiday (wish we could travel more…….). We are certainly never bored and when you are not at work you do not feel the need to spend much money at all. Mark is certainly healthier and happier and I don’t know how I ever had time to work at all! Love Viv & Mark xx
Glad to hear things are good for the two of you. I’m trying to maintain a positive mindset and look to a changed future 🙂
Scary times when you’re not ready. Rest relax recharge then go get em. xxxxx
Thanks Rae – scary yes but looking at this as a positive at the moment, just need to maintain that mindset 🙂
In time, things will fall right in place, Pam. And sometimes on the way to *the dream* you get lost and waalaa find a better one. Xo
I know …. positive attitude and all that ….. things will fall into place 🙂
It sounds like a new adventure is on the horizon my darling. Go with the change, it usually offers new people and a new mindset 🙂
You could be right there Natalie – thanks 🙂